Growing a seed

- The power of transition periods, rituals, giving birth to a new piece in my work (and life) - Two years ago I came back to Holland and decided it was time to bring something into this world. After a few years of intense personal transformation, I felt the calling to...

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Empowering women WITHOUT dis-empowering men

In Holland there is a big movement happening in the tantra community. A website has been launched to report sexual abuse during professional tantra sessions. The number of reports that is coming in about men in the tantric work field who are overstepping boundaries is...

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Beauty, standards and couches

What kind of couch would you be? When you would look into 100 living rooms, the chances of finding 2 identical couches are quite slim. You would see huge couches, small ones, the ones so soft you disappear into them, the firm ones, all different kinds of colors,...

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Life is not meant to be lived alone

Life is not meant to be lived alone. It is meant to share. Share your wisdom. Your love. Your pain. Your joy. Your fear. Share meals. Laughs. Tears. Share your gifts. Your service. A great part of my life I felt alone. I didn't feel at home anywhere. And I feared deep...

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Facing my fears

Blooper time!! Life is not about being fearless! It's about having fears and not letting them stop you. I am really scared of being on camera, because it can catch and expose your imperfections. So today I had help from a good friend with making the video's and you...

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The breaking of the cocoon

I am completely changed yet still the same. Unable to grasp the full meaning of this transformation, yet I am discovering the world from a new perspective. Being able to fly out into the endless expansion of the world around me. My heart is vibrating while I witness...

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The beauty of crying

For years and years we are taught that crying is a bad thing. As young kids we are told not to cry, or to stop crying. 'No crying or I'll give you a reason to cry'. 'Stop crying like a little baby'. 'Don't overreact'. 'Don't be so emotional'. 'If you don't stop crying...

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